Post by merse on Mar 3, 2009 4:16:42 GMT
Mar 2, 2009 21:34:24 GMT Dave said:
The next time I was there was when we played the O's when Caldwell scored two goals, but on the road to the ground in the East End all I saw and noticed was dirty littered streets.
I guess first or early impressions are very important and opinion forming.
My first visit to London wouldn't have been until the mid sixties and I STILL hold vivid images in my mind of the dereliction and poverty I saw on the streets down the Old Kent Road, the poorly dressed children, the bomb sites (forty years after the Blitz) and amazingly, horse drawn totters plying their trade.
My first impressions of Bournemouth - formed in the late fifties/early sixties from holidays that my gran took me on where of those yellow trolley buses and the smell of pine and air of cleanliness everywhere.
Subsequently, Plymouth to me was how I first saw it in 1956 when my father took me on the train from NA to Plymouth Navy Days and the widespread scenes of re-construction set against acres of bomb damage, my first ever experience of a moving escalator (in Spooners Dept Store) and those massive, massive warships on the Hamoaze.
Leeds was the long drive into town down the Huddersfield Road with seemingly every side street off it festooned with washing lines strung across with their contents billowing in the breeze.
The point I'm making is that times move on, things change and sights alter. Preconceptions rob one of the open mindedness to enjoy new experiences and even make renewances when returning to old haunts.
I was born in Newton Abbot, my partner in Paris; yet we both live equidistant from those places in our shared home in London. I think it would be fair to say that Paris, even though it is situated in a foreign country; has far more in common with London than Newton Abbot....................certainly my partner thinks so!
It seems like your work journey to London was a bit of a nightmare Dave, and a lot of those parking wardens are like automatons - particularly in certain boroughs; so I'll give you a little tip here..................if you drive up this way again and want to know the way ask a black cab driver (that's a driver of a black cab, not................... ) They and only they really know their way about this vast place and the Knowledge they are required to attain before getting their licence is legendary. They are expected to know and demonstrate a thorough knowledge of the whereabouts of every school, museum, major hotel, place of interest and police station within the M25 to say nothing of the many "runs" they are required to store in their heads beginning on day one with "Manor House to Gibson Square" and carrying on for seemingly ever and ever on repeated visits to the infamous Cab licensing offices in Penton Street for "appearances" before the examiners.....................many of them still retaining the age old traditions of sarcasm, officiousness and intransigence.
There's no need to hold any different environment in contempt or even fear, as it is just that - a different environment; and whilst I do concede that the edginess of a city (any big city) will put a certain amount of fear and mistrust into a country boy there really is no need to assume we all live in pollution and overcrowding up here...................and I hope my ramblings of Clerkenwell yesterday went some way towards demonstrating that fact.
I never cease to overwhelmed by the shear beauty and majesty of the wide open spaces of my home county and am very proud to be a Devonian, but I have lived in London for longer than anywhere else in my adult life now and am also proud to call myself a Londoner..................a typical Londoner as I wasn't born here; and you see to me that is the very difference in the two places. In London one is accepted as a Londoner almost as soon as one arrives whereas in Devon one can live there for two or three decades and still be "that bloke from London" or wherever.
Does that make sense?